Feeling like you are in a constant battle? With your condition? Your self-care routine? Your own inner critic? Know when to retreat. Rest when you need to rest. Cut back on activities when your body isn’t up to the challenge. Set priorities. Decide what needs to get done – starting with your self-care – and what doesn’t need to get done. It’s not about giving in, or giving up. You are honoring your own needs. After all, nobody’s awarding any Purple Hearts here.
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Q: I was recently diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis and I am really trying to face up to this condition and maintain my independence. But there are days when I know I need help. My family is telling me that I am being stubborn when all I am trying to do is be a Fighter. When is it time to ask for help?
A: Fighters may have a reputation as the ideal role models but they aren’t always good at seeking out support unless someone shows them how much worse things will be if they don’t.
Fighters often view themselves as so in control of their situation that they can handle every...
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