Uncomfortable about how your PCP will react if you consult with a specialist? Consulting a specialist is not the same as criticizing your primary care physician’s approach, nor does it or imply that he/she is incompetent in any way. So approach the conversation by emphasizing that your decision is based on a desire for the perspective on treating your condition that a specialist brings to the table, not a lack of trust. Assume that your physician wants the best for you. Chances are, your doctor has had this discussion with patients in a similar situation and may welcome the idea of having additional input into your care. You may even want to ask your physician for suggestions on specialists in your condition that he/she trusts.
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