Remember Compassion 101. Sure, you’re the one who’s living with a chronic condition. But your partner is also affected. And sometimes what feels like unkind or inconsiderate behavior can be an expression of frustration, or fear, or helplessness. Everybody is struggling in their own way. Before you jump to the usual conclusion, assume that everybody is doing the best they can. You, and your partner. Even when it it doesn’t feel that way. Remember, we are all in this together.
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Q: I was recently diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis and I am really trying to face up to this condition and maintain my independence. But there are days when I know I need help. My family is telling me that I am being stubborn when all I am trying to do is be a Fighter. When is it time to ask for help?
A: Fighters may have a reputation as the ideal role models but they aren’t always good at seeking out support unless someone shows them how much worse things will be if they don’t.
Fighters often view themselves as so in control of their situation that they can handle every...
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